I first heard about ninety-nine girlfriends from a friend. She was a member and invited me to attend the Awards Celebration in 2018 as her guest. I was quite moved by the experience! The venue was festively decorated, refreshments were served, and music was provided by earnest youngsters playing various instruments funded by a ninety-nine girlfriends grant (reminding me of my own clarinet-playing days in grade school). The mood in the room was joyful, friendly, and engaging. I met a lot of bright and welcoming women that evening. I also witnessed the drive, dedication, and impact of Girlfriends pulling together and partnering with local nonprofit organizations to address critical needs in the community. I was drawn in by the passion and accomplishments of the nonprofits who received grants. No time to hesitate, I became a Girlfriend right away.

I soon joined the Membership Committee. My first responsibility was to go to the PO box to pick up membership contribution checks, record them in a newly implemented membership management application, and then send them to the bank for deposit. It was a simple, repetitive task and one I could easily incorporate into my regular routine. I enjoyed learning the names of members and then meeting them at events. I gradually learned more about the committee functions, took on more responsibility, and expanded my role. In 2022, I became co-chair and have enjoyed leading the committee, supporting our members, and shaping our strategies and processes.

Starting in 2026, I have another role: co-chair of the Coordinating Council. This assembly of committee chairs and at-large representatives helps ensure good coordination and communication between the different parts of the organization so we can continue to recruit and retain members, learn collaboratively about our community needs, and make impactful grants in response to those needs. Being a Girlfriend has been a meaningful and rewarding experience. I feel grateful to be a part of ninety-nine girlfriends and look forward to staying involved and contributing to this amazing organization for years to come.